Archive for August, 2008
He was doing this on purpose, right?
because sex is pretty funny, the solution is in your hands| No Comments »We’re all for creative sensuality here at Out from Under. No reason a girl should limit her play to the obvious. We’ve discussed the erotic potential of vegetables , some battery-operated faves, sing-along vibes, and even the classy Delft variety .
However, creative thinker though I am, it had honestly never occurred to me to look [...]
A matter of aesthetics. Or not?
Ilona's Take| 4 Comments »From the “bigger is better” school of life comes The Big Penis Book. Why a book of outsized out-riggers? Because, we’re told, we all love the things. Drawn to them like moths to a flame. Just can’t help our wide-eyed selves.
…who can deny the allure of a big dick? Flaccid or erect, it is aesthetically [...]
You’ve missed the point, girls
the change it is a-comin', women on top| No Comments »Ah, flirting. One of the best social games out there. It’s a multi-tiered exchange involving the mind as much as — no, more than — the body, with lots of mutual appreciation, suggestion, inneundo, a ton of sexual charge. While the possibility of sex is always in the air, the best flirts enjoy the process [...]
A morality tale for the 21st Century
Ilona's Take| 2 Comments »There are rules, you know. There are always rules. You’re in a traditional marriage, there are rules: sexual exclusivity, respect, who takes the garbage out. You’re in a non-traditional one, there are still rules.
In fact, maybe there are more. At any rate, if you’re smart they’ll be more explicit. My friend and her husband are [...]
There’s a fly in the ointment, I can just sense it…
Ilona's Take| 1 Comment »Awww, it’s a baaaaaaby! Isnt’ that sweeet?
In fact, it’s a cake! Really! Isn’t the craftmanship amazing? The woman who creates these things — she’s an artist. No doubt about it. Her medium may be cake, marzipan, chocolate and fondant icing, but who can deny the skill required, or the beauty of her creations?
You can totally [...]
Defining ’sexy’
women on top| No Comments »There are as many types of ’sexy’ as their are women. We know that in theory, but we don’t all believe it. It’s too obvious what’s really sexy: she’s young, slim, she’s got big boobs. These days she’s also allowed to have a curvaceous ass — so long as it’s not too big. There are [...]
Nature isn’t subtle
Ilona's Take| 1 Comment »Summertime! Time for cold drinks on a hot afternoon, sipped in civilized pleasure from your front porch as you scan the rolling expanse of your lovely green lawn. (If, like me, your front yard is nothing like that, you can nonetheless join me in the fantasy. Your porch — wide and sweeping, embellished with white [...]
Abstinence thong: Irony you can wear
lingerie, marriage etc.| 2 Comments »In case you can’t read the small print, it says
“Earn the right to wear white.”
ABSTAIN
Goodness. Where to begin?
Who wears white? The Bride, of course. The Princess for a Day. The Virgin Offering. Certainly not her potential husband. You don’t see any abstinence boxers out there. So, the target audience for these words of mind-control encouragement [...]
Faking it
Ilona's Take, because sex is pretty funny, the solution is in your hands| 7 Comments »Why do so many women fake orgasm?
Most of us have faked it, at least once. (At least, straight women have. I’m kind of working on the assumption that lesbians don’t, or with way reduced frequency… but if I’m wrong, feel free to correct me!) Once and a while, you’ll have your reasons, and no harm [...]